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Ideas for Helping A Loved One with Dementia Enjoy the Holiday Season

Posted on September 8, 2017

Ideas for Dementia and Enjoying the Holiday Season

 

Help For A Loved One with Dementia Enjoy the Holiday Season

The most common favorite gift is simply giving the gift of your presence. All of the following tips would be great for anyone, but there are also a few helpful considerations for those who have loved ones with dementia. The Alzheimer’s Association offers some thoughtful ideas gift-giving and spending quality time that we felt could truly make for a memorable holiday season for everyone.

Build on past traditions and memories. Focus on activities that are meaningful to the person with dementia. Your family member may find comfort in singing old holiday songs or looking through old photo albums.

Involve the person in holiday preparation. If possible, invite him or her to help prepare food, wrap packages, decorate or set the table. This could be as simple as handing you the lights as you place them on the Christmas tree. Be careful with lights, though. Blinking lights may confuse or scare a person with dementia, and decorations that look like food could be mistaken as edible.

Encourage safe and useful gifts for the person with dementia. Diminishing capacity may make some gifts unusable or even dangerous to a person with dementia. If someone asks for gift ideas, suggest items the person with dementia needs or can easily enjoy. Ideas include an identification bracelet, comfortable clothing, audiotapes of favorite music, videos and photo albums.

Put respite care on your wish list. If friends or family ask what you want for a gift, suggest a gift certificate or something that will help you take care of yourself as you care for your loved one. This could be a cleaning or household chore service, an offer to provide respite care, or something that provides you with a bit of rest and relaxation.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, Appleton Seniors, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors, dementia

Alzheimer’s Behavior Changes

Posted on September 6, 2017

Managing Alzheimer’s Behavior

Triggers for Alzheimer’s Behavior

Alzheimer’s is a disease that not only attacks one’s memory, but can also alter a person’s mood. In fact, studies have shown, most people are more affected by the behavior and attitude changes that come along with Alzheimer’s disease, more than the memory being effected. The main reason behavior is altered is from the brain cells fading away. Another some other cases,  environment, some other diseases, and taking certain medications can be the cause of one’s behavior deteriorating faster.
As a precaution that the disease is taking form, here are some symptoms to look out for:
•    Emotional suffering
•    Irritability
•    Depression
•    Anger
•    Sleepless nights
•    Aggression
•    Anxiety
•    Physical or verbal outbursts
•    Restlessness
•    Hallucinating

Changes in a person’s evironment is most often play the trigger for  behavioral indications.
Alteration in life and environment is something that is difficult and or stressful for all people, so it is no secret that change will be even more  largely  strenuous for those people who are suffering from Alzheimer’s disease. An increase in grasping for normalcy, which can give birth to feelings of anxiousness, fear, and exhaustion, trying to figure out which way is up in their ever deteriorating world of confusion. A change in address can be a cause for behavior being affected, or even a slight change in a familiar setting, such as obtaining a new caregiver or new family members or roommates joining the home. One suffering from Alzheimer’s disease may also take something said out of context and view it as something negative or a even a threat, and cause their behavior to change drastically. Once you figure out what triggers behavior, it will be easier to treat the situation with care, and avoid outbursts.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, Appleton Seniors, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors, dementia

Early Onset Alzheimer’s

Posted on September 6, 2017

Do All People Get Early Onset Alzheimer’s?

Who Gets Early Onset Alzheimer’s and the Tell Tale Signs of it

Many people in their older years develop Alzheimer’s – this is a common occurrence. Early onset Alzheimer’s however, is not as common. This occurs in men and women in their 40’s and 50’s, whereas just Alzheimer’s occurs usually in people around the age of 65 and older. For those estimated 200,000 people who get diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s, it is a bigger shock and life change when the disease is detected, as they are usually in the throws of careers and families, not yet in the mindset of preparing for the aging stage of life.
If you are one who is experiencing early onset Alzheimer’s, do not fear – you are not alone! To get more information and get connected to others going through Alzheimer’s, contact your local chapter or BrightStar Care of Appleton.
Along with these communities, stay in close and constant communication with your doctor/healthcare provider. As early onset Alzheimer’s isn’t as common, it is usually harder to diagnose as doctors are not immediately looking for those signs. Keep in mind that this may be a long and frustrating process, so work together, have patience, make sure to throw out any other possibilities, and again, stay in constant communication with your doctor. Early onset Alzheimer’s and dementia presents itself differently in all people, and can sometimes appear when in the mid or late stages, so be aware of all signs. As soon as you throw out the possibility of over stress or any other diagnosis, it will be easier to tackle your situation and begin managing it right away.
As you are noticing that your memory is fading or not working as well as it used to, speak with your healthcare provider about getting a complete medical test with an Alzheimer’s specialist. At home, start keeping notes on memory loss and other cognitive issues you may be experiencing, and share them with your doctor. Just remember: One test will not be enough to diagnose whether you have early onset Alzheimer’s or not. Make sure to do the full checkup and medical testing to confirm.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, Appleton Seniors, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors, dementia

Alzheimer’s Prevention

Posted on August 29, 2017

5 Ways to Prevent Alzheimer’s Disease

Alzheimer’s Disease: 5 Helpful Tips for Prevention

As we age, so do our minds and memories. This does not necessarily mean that you have Alzheimer’s, but it may. This disease is a hard one to diagnose and while there is no current prevention, but Harvard Medical School has compiled a list of helpful ways to help fight against this disease, and make life easier for you and your loved one.
As is the case for overall health, staying in shape and having a healthy weight is the first word of advice to help fight against diseases such as Alzheimer’s. If you find yourself to be a few pounds heavier than you should, doctors encourage physical activity. To help you gauge, a healthy midsection size for men is 40 inches, and 35 for women.

Diet is very important in prevention of Alzheimer’s. Make sure to have a healthy eating habit full of vegetables, fruits, whole grains, protein, and vitamins. Some suggestions would be: Fish, chicken, beans, tofu, and other healthy fats. If you have a sugar tooth, be mindful of tempering how much you include in your daily diet, along with refined grains, unhealthy fats, and your overall “over snacking” habits.
As in all weight loss and maintaining circumstances, incorporate daily exercise into your routine. This will not only help you stay physically fit, but will also contribute to your blood pressure staying healthy, as well as maintaining your cholesterol and blood sugar levels. Some suggestions for seniors would be: swimming, biking, walking, and other forms of aerobics. Doctors recommend 2.5-5 hours of weekly exercise.

Again, as in all medical cases, communication is key. Ask your doctor what range level is healthy for your age and size, in regards to blood pressure, cholesterol, blood sugar, etc. Communicate about changing your eating habits, exercise routine, and if you need to be on any sort of medication regimen.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease Tagged With: Alzheimer’s Disease, Preventitive Medicine

Do You Have Alzheimer’s?

Posted on August 28, 2017

10 Signs You May Have Alzheimer’s

Warning Signs of Alzheimer’s

The dangerous affliction causes loss of memory and severe cognitive illness. Sadly, most people with Alzheimer’s aren’t aware of it. That’s why it’s vital to look out for the warning signs. Here are 10 early signs and symptoms of Alzheimer’s, according to the Alzheimer’s Association:

Memory loss that disrupts daily life
One of the most common signs of Alzheimer’s is memory loss, especially forgetting recently learned information. Others include forgetting important dates or events; asking for the same information repeatedly or increasingly needing to rely on memory aids.
Challenges in planning or solving problems
Some people may experience changes in their ability to develop and follow a plan or work with numbers.
Difficulty completing familiar tasks at home, at work or at leisure
People with Alzheimer’s often find it hard to complete daily tasks. Sometimes, people may have trouble driving to a familiar location, managing a budget at work or remembering the rules of a favorite game.
Confusion with time or place
This involves losing track of dates, seasons and the passage of time. Sometimes there is forgetting where you are or how you got there.
Trouble understanding visual images and spatial relationships
Some with vision problems may have difficulty reading, judging distance and determining color or contrast, which may cause problems with driving.
New problems with words in speaking or writing
People with Alzheimer’s may have trouble following or joining a conversation. They may stop in the middle of a conversation and have no idea how to continue or they may repeat themselves. They may struggle with vocabulary, have problems finding the right word or call things by the wrong name.
Misplacing things and losing the ability to retrace steps
A person with Alzheimer’s may put things in unusual places. They may lose things and be unable to go back over their steps to find them again.
Decreased or poor judgment
People with Alzheimer’s may experience changes in judgment or decision-making. For example, they may use poor judgment when dealing with money and may pay less attention to grooming themselves.
Withdrawal from work or social activities
A person with Alzheimer’s may start to remove themselves from hobbies, social activities, work projects or sports. They may have trouble keeping up with a favorite sports team or remembering how to complete a favorite hobby. They may also avoid being social because of their changes.
Changes in mood and personality
The mood and personalities of people with Alzheimer’s can change. They can become confused, suspicious, depressed fearful or anxious. They may be easily upset at home, at work, with friends or in places where they are out of their comfort zone.
If you or a loved one has dementia or Alzheimer’s specifically and you have questions or need additional support, you can contact BrightStar Care of Appleton 24/7.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, Appleton Seniors, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors, dementia

Communication Tips for Alzheimer’s Patients

Posted on August 28, 2017

10 Tips on Communication With Alzheimer’s Patients

Tips on Communicating with People with Alzheimer’s

Through our specialized memory care program, BrightStar Connections, we are able to truly provide A Higher Standard of care and support to our clients living with Alzheimer’s or dementia. In addition to taking great care of our clients living with Alzheimer’s or dementia, it’s important to us to extend a hand to their families as well to let them know they don’t have to take this journey alone. One of the many ways we support families is by providing information, answering their questions and even in offering helpful tips.
Since November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month, we have even more reason to share some thoughtful tips for communicating with someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia:
– Never argue, instead agree
– Never reason, instead divert
– Never shame, instead distract
– Never lecture, instead reassure
– Never say “remember,” instead reminisce
– Never say “I told you,” instead repeat/regroup
– Never say “You can’t,” instead do what they can
– Never command/demand, instead ask/model
– Never condescend, instead encourage
– Never force, instead reinforce
To learn more about the care and support we can provide to people with Alzheimer’s and dementia in the home, contact BrightStar Care of Appleton today.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, Appleton Seniors, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors, dementia

Your Emotional Needs and Alzheimer’s

Posted on August 25, 2017

Resources to Help Cope with Alzheimer’s

Living with Alzheimer’s: You are Not Alone

You receive the heavy diagnosis: Alzheimer’s Disease. You go through the beginning stages of emotions that follow. You then start to come around to the reality of the situation, and into acceptance. Now you are ready to move forward and get into a new normal routine in life. Just because you or a loved one is living with Alzheimer‘s does NOT by any means mean that you cannot live a successful and fulfilled life. Below are tips on how to help with this new life you are now living.

  1. Talk to your family and friends about it. They may also be dealing with it, and they may also feel afraid to talk to you about it, so make that first step.
  2. Journal: Start at the very beginning, and write down everything you are thinking and feeling.
  3. Share those feelings you have written down with loved ones and close friends. Grief is a part of the process of accepting Alzheimer’s, and grief is something to be shared about and being honest about what emotions you are processing.
  4. Talk to your doctor about seeking professional help. If you feel emotionally unstable, do NOT self diagnose. Talk to your doctor.
  5. Counseling: Seek professional help from a counslor or clergy member to help you to cope with everything that you are feeling.
  6. Support groups: Becoming a part of an early onset support group can really help you get your barrings as you settle into your new normal. Research your local Alzheimer’s Association chapter for more information on these types of support groups.
  7. Your emotional surroundings: Surround yourself with stability. Find a good support system in friends and family who are ready to walk this path with you, who understand it, and are ready and willing to help every step along the way.
  8. Continue the normal as much as possible. Continuing to do the daily things you have always loved will help keep spirits up and staying active will have a huge positive mental affect on you as you go through Alzheimer’s. Take the time to grieve the loss, but do not get stuck in it, and return to your life, because although different, it is still your life, and it is a good one.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors, dementia

A New Way of Living: Alzheimer’s

Posted on August 25, 2017

Coping with Alzheimer’s

Emotions and Living with Alzheimer’s

Just because you or a loved one has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or dementia, doesn’t mean that you are isolated from the rest of the world. Rest in that there is a great community out there of support for every step of the way. People who are out that there that know exactly what you are going through, whether it be they themselves are suffering from Alzheimer’s, or they are dealing with a loved one suffering. One thing that you will most commonly hear from friends, doctors, support groups, is this: tackle the disease early. The second is to know emotional roller coaster it will be, and understand all of the stages of emotions that will be to come. The first emotion that usually comes with a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s is one of loss. Loss of the normalcy that life once was, loss of how easy life was, and loss of memories made in the past. Fear may not be far behind. Fear of the unknown future, fear of the future changes to come, fear of the lost memories, as well as fear of the loss to knowing the every day “routine” tasks.

To help whether it be you or a loved one suffering from Alzheimer‘s, below is a standard series of emotions that you will experience after a diagnosis:

  1. Depression: There will be a sense of sadness and hopelessness and helplessness to stop the changes that are to come.
  2. Denial: There will probably be a stage at the beginning where you cannot wrap your mind around it and may think that all doctors are wrong with their diagnosis. Hearing you have this disease can be overwhelming, and it may be easier to pretend at the beginning that it isn’t really there to avoid the drastic changes that you will have to eventually make in life.
  3. Sense of loss: As the disease progresses, you will have to mentally prepare yourself or  your loved one for grieving the life once lived before being diagnosed.
  4. Anger: As with most if not all medical diagnosis’, anger will be one of most early reactions to hearing you have Alzheimer’s. You do not have control over what is happening in your body, and you are being forced to completely changing your way of living. Plans will have to change, and the unknown future will be the dictator of many things moving forward.
  5. Resentment: The all too common “why” question will pop up. “Why me? What did I do to deserve this?”
  6. Fear: Fear of the unknown future, fear of how loved ones will respond, help, or not help.
  7. Isolation: You may feel like you do not have anyone to talk to, or that no one knows or understands what you are going through.
  8. Relief: You’ve known for sometime that something was wrong, and now you feel relief that you have a diagnosis and you have information moving forward on how to cope and live with this new way of life.

 

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, Appleton Seniors, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors, dementia

Alzheimer’s: The Signs (Part 2)

Posted on August 22, 2017

Do You or a Loved One Have Alzheimer’s? (Part 2)

Signs You or Your Loved One May Have Alzheimer’s

A tell tale sign that a person may be suffering from Alzheimer’s Disease or Dementia, is a compromise in judgement in regards to every day life choices and behavior. This could be something as simple as not being able to dress oneself properly, as far as how to put on a shirt or pants, or in regards to weather appropriate dressing. In most cases, seniors suffering from dementia or Alzheimer’s will start having trouble with money, and not making wise financial decisions, but will instead make erratic and impulsive spending patterns.  Simple tasks that you or your loved ones could accomplish without a second thought, now become more difficult. Planning a daily routine, making decisions, or even the simple task of deciding dinner, now will become a taxing chore that will take up energy and mind power that never happened before. Repeating words, concepts, and stories repeatedly is also common among Alzheimer’s patients. If a person is in a stressful situation, this could be the reaction they have to self sooth, or this could also be the reaction in a situation where they feel fearful or even bored.
A person with Alzheimer’s begins to struggle with their communication. As the disease worsens, so does the talking. A sentence may not get finished,  a word or thought may not be able to be communicated, and the person may have to use hand gestures to communicate. Comprehension of time and place is another tell tale sign of Alzheimer’s and/or dementia. Doctors will even comment that not having any concept of time, and being completely disoriented all of the time in that regard is a sure sign and problem with Alzheimer’s.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, Appleton Seniors, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors, dementia

Alzheimer’s: The Signs (Part 1)

Posted on August 22, 2017

Do you or a Loved One Have Alzheimer’s?

Signs You or Your Loved One May Have Alzheimer’s

You see some differences. You are not sure what it is. Should you be worried, or not? Doctors remind patients that just because you may have a symptom or two, this does NOT necessarily mean that you have Alzheimer’s. This also does not mean you have dementia, which is caused by Alzheimer’s about half to 80% of the time. Sometimes loss of memory can be attributed to a deficiency in B12, sometimes it can be caused by a malfunction in the liver, kidney, brain, or thyroid. To help more quickly diagnose if you have Alzheimer’s Disease, take a look to see if you have the following symptoms.

The most common symptom of Alzheimer’s Disease is memory loss. This is different from forgetfulness. People of all ages can suffer from memory loss due to anxiety, depression, or stress. You make think that you are showing signs of dementia if these arise as you age, but that is not necessary true. Memory loss is a more severe and different scenario. An older person who is suffering from memory loss will not remember what happened two minutes prior, versus just forgetting a person’s name or a small detail in a pervious conversation. Memory loss is actually not a normal part of the aging process, but rather is a sign that something is not right.

Mood swings and agitation is another sign of Alzheimer’s in an elderly person who is usually even keeled and generally calm and cheerful. If a senior starts to become erratic in behavior and has builds up a habit of pacing to and fro, concentrated on details such as dates, places, and specific people, which in turn causes them to become confused and distressed on an extreme level, this could be a tell tale sign of Alzheimer’s Disease. If you are a caretaker of someone who is suffering from Alzheimer’s, keep in mind that big change such as moving one from a home to a nursing facility, can be a trigger for anxiety and emotion.

If you are the loved one of a senior suffering from Alzheimer’s, a great way to care for them is to take control of their finances. As Alzheimer’s Disease takes over the brain, numbers of any kind, especially in regards to money, will become confusing to a person. This also applies to every day normal duties, such as cooking, cleaning, or any other household chores as simple as watering plants. But it is not just the chores that they may forget about. Playing a favorite game may become difficult, or other favorite pastime hobbies or actives.

Filed Under: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Disease, Appleton Seniors, BrightStar Care Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Alzheimer's awareness, Appleton seniors

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